With commitment, the only way out is forward

February 24, 2014 - by: Dan Oswald 4 COMMENTS

Commitmentby Dan Oswald

A man is in a restroom standing in front of a urinal when he finds himself with a dilemma. He has somehow dropped a $5 bill into the urinal. As he is contemplating what he should do about his five bucks, another man enters the restroom. The second man quickly sees the problem and asks, “What are you going to do?”

The first man thinks it over for a minute. He then pulls his wallet out of his pocket, withdraws a $100 bill, and tosses it into the urinal! The second man stands in amazement at what he has just seen. He asks, “What are you doing? Why would you do that? You just made your problem much worse.”

The first man smiles at him and says, “Well, you don’t think I’d stick my hand in a urinal for just $5, do you?”

You may have heard this story before, but it illustrates a great point—you don’t know what you’re capable of doing until the stakes are high enough to really matter to you. That is, if you have enough invested in something—whether it be financially or emotionally—you’ll go to surprising lengths to succeed.

Commitment takes energy, both physical and emotional. That’s why so many people find it difficult to really be committed to their jobs. Let’s admit it—there are times when things get tough at work. Maybe the project you’re working on isn’t going the way you expected. Suddenly additional effort and hours are required to get the job done. What are you going to do—push through and meet your objective or throw in the towel and say that it just couldn’t be done?

Many of us try to walk that line of not committing fully to the task at hand to protect ourselves. Stay with me here. If you engage in the task only half-heartedly and it doesn’t work out, you can say that you really weren’t trying or that you really didn’t believe it would work. It’s like the $5 in the urinal—you don’t have much invested, so letting go isn’t too tough.

But if you jump in with both feet and fully commit to something and it doesn’t work out, there’s no built-in excuse, and the pain related to failure is more acute. It’s like leaving that $100 bill in the urinal—it hurts more.

The problem is that in an effort to protect ourselves from potential failure, we actually increase the likelihood that it will occur. By not fully committing to the job, we almost ensure that the results won’t be what they could be.

So how do you get fully invested in what you’re doing? How do you start acting like you have $100 in the urinal instead of $5? I think that more often than not, it means jumping in with both feet. You need to just take the plunge. We spend so much time and energy thinking about whether we should do something and what will happen if we try and fail instead of putting that time and energy into making sure we succeed.

So how do you take “the plunge”? One thing that has worked for me is “going on the record” with what I’m trying to achieve. If your word is important to you, by publicly stating what you’re going to do, you can take away the option of turning back. If you’re working on a critical project, you openly and publicly commit to a deadline. If you’re setting sales targets, you submit those targets in writing or post them where others can see them.

When you make that goal public, suddenly turning back becomes more difficult. When no one knows what you’re trying to achieve, it’s easy to give up. But when you tell the world what you’re going to do, you become more committed to achieving your goal. The fear of failure that keeps you from trying now becomes your ally because you don’t want everyone to see you fail.

You need to find ways to be fully committed to what you’re doing. You must understand what motivates you—what is going to make it hard for you to turn back—because you’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish when the only way out is forward.

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4 COMMENTS

1 kevin mullin
22:46:19, 24/02/14

Dan, I agree with what you are saying. I think America has gotten lazy in the last 30 years. 20 year olds don’t know the difference between a drill and a sander. The U.S. has to achieve a second industrial revolution. My biz got hurt in 2008, now I just do more of the work myself and it is slowly rebuilding. I also just started a 2 year machine shop program because I either want to invent a product or improve an existing product. We can’t keep being a service economy. It will kill the U. S. and ultimately bring disaster to Europe as well.
I recently e-mailed Ca. gov. Brown and suggested nicely that his idea of stimulating Ca. economy by building a bullett train from San Francisco to Los Angeles was not the best sollution. Again , this is a service biz fundamentally once it is built and there is no end product to sell world wide. I suggested building desalinization plants on the Ca. coast. It would create construction jobs a plenty and you would end up with a manufactured product: WATER. This water could then be sent in land short distance and span a second industry: Farming. Farms would employ thousands and would have another product to sell: FOOD. We rely heavily on the Colorado river and if any natural or terrorist disaster hits that river, it’s game over for not only Ca. but Az. and Nev. too. So this would also take the reliance off that source and be like an insurance policy. If you think my idea is sound and you know how to push this forward with contacts , I implore you to do so. I don’t understand why they are not already doing it. Sure it would be a little more expensive than importing water at first, but as I have pointed out in the long run it would be cheaper and create many more jobs and maybe a lot less international death from lack of food and water. Sincerely, Kevin Mullin

2 Monica Enrique
08:29:45, 25/02/14

EXCELLENT article!!! This applies to every facet of life…not just work.

3 Norman
09:02:18, 25/02/14

I really enjoyed the article about commitment and helped me understand that your in or out. You can’t be half in or out. You need to commit to your team and company or look for another job. Great perspective!
Thanks Norm

4 Anna Pitts
10:51:30, 25/02/14

Of all the stuff that comes into my e-mail, The Oswald Letter is always worth reading. This article is among the best of the best. Thank you for telling it in a way that gets my attention, is kind of funny but drives the point home. Excellent article!

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